I don't have enough money for closing costs. I told the mortgage people I would need assistance from the very beginning and the sales rep I'm buying the home from assured me over and over it would not be a problem. I even told them exactly how much I'd be able to save. Now the sales rep says sorry, the lot cost too much to develop and the mortgage guy said he'd "try to fix ASAP" but is now ignoring my e-mails. I seriously, seriously can't take any more. I'm so stressed right now that it's leaking over to my daughter -- she's been having trouble breathing and the school nurse thinks it's anxiety.
I'm going to have to ask someone to lend me $4,000 or walk away from my dream (if they even let me walk away at this point). And thank God that I am blessed with family who I know will help me if they can. But still, I shouldn't have to ask. I should have the funds I need or I shouldn't be buying a house.